What should I do if I love someone who does not love me?
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This is a very difficult situation. If the person you love does not love you, then their actions speak louder than words and it’s clear that they are not on the same page as you.
You might want to take some time for yourself and think about what your next steps should be in this relationship because ultimately, no one can make someone change their mind if they don’t want to. You could end things on good terms with them or try reaching out again after some space has passed so that there isn’t any residual anger between the two of you when trying again may just lead back into hurt feelings or worse yet – total alienation from each other.
If you love this person, then the only option is to wait for them to come around.
If someone truly loves you they will always show it in their actions. If they don’t care enough about your feelings or well-being, then there’s no point in waiting around hoping that things will change. You should cut off all ties with them and find someone who values your worth! It might not be easy but life is too short for people who make us feel less important than everything else in their life.